Self-care

Self-care can not be defined or described with just one aspect as I formerly thought. I thought adequate self-care for me was to get out once or twice a month with my husband or girlfriends. I thought everyone, wifommys' in particular, should have their one thing that they did for self-care. However, the longer you …

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Changing My Words To Be More Encouraging

My husband is a hard worker, a very hard worker. He always has been. Recently, he has started working in a new revenue stream for our household. The hours aren't ridiculous but he is so tired when he comes home that I feel helpless. Pregnancy hormones are not assisting me in my feelings in a …

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The Sexiest Thing A Man Can Ever Say!

Last week was hard. Hard doesn't even begin to describe the anguish of thought, feelings of hopelessness and defeat that I experienced. But praise God! Trouble don't last always. After much prayer, surviving off of God's word (which lead to a new Bible Study and a new devotional), and acceptance of His will, HE DELIVERED! My …

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The Sun Will Come Out Tomorrow

I felt myself coming to the end. I felt me growing empty.  Think of a jar of peanut butter.  You know you are close to the end when you can see through parts of the bottom of the clear jar but you also know that if you use a spatula, you can scrape out at …

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What’s Really Important

I started to feel sorry for myself. My husband and Jazmine have been sick. I've made time for myself but it's not been the family time I originally envisioned. Anthony is up for the week and I had all these fun memories I was hoping to create. Instead of fun there were fevers and sickies. …

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Conflicting Emotions

It's a little after 10PM.  We've had a busy day.  Jazmine is in the bed.  My mom calls; I talk to her. I finish our call and briefly talk to my tired husband.  I am finished all of my roles for the day.  I've Mommied, wifed, and daughtered. I was beginning to settle in to …

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