I have to get this out.
I can’t even finish my list of things to do right now.
I am once again disgusted.
I am not surprised but yet, I find myself disappointed.
Just a few hours ago, my husband and I officially embarked on a new adventure in Christ. (More information on that to come later as things develop). This new adventure brought some old concerns of mine to the forefront of my mind. Brian and I hope this new adventure will lead us to our own home. The major concern being the highly probable, albeit currently theoretical, confrontation with Tanya where I must repeat to her that neither she nor her mother are welcome in our home.
As I mulled over this possibility, I started to think I might have been wrong then this happens and I am again reminded that I am not wrong and I need to stand my ground and walk through the door if need be.
Bella posted something inappropriate on one of her social media accounts. My husband sent her a text and told her to take it down because it was inappropriate. We don’t know if Bella took it down because, not only did she not respond to her father’s text, she removed him from being one of her contacts and blocked him from her on the site.
Brian, my husband, text Tanya but did not get a call back. He tried to contact Bella again today but she did not respond. He reached Tanya today and her response was, again, not surprising based on who she has shown us to be but was disappointing nonetheless. In a nut shell, Tanya said that 1. she heard that Bella had blocked some people 2. that Brian needed to speak with Bella about this directly 3. that Bella was asleep.
Here are my issues. 1. Why are you being facetious by saying you heard that she had blocked some people? You know full well what happened in full detail. 2. How can he speak with Bella directly if Bella does not answer her phone and he has already told you that he has been trying to contact her? Furthermore, shouldn’t you also be speaking to Bella about this? Why is it okay for her to block her FATHER? Would it be okay if she did that to you? 3. It’s 10PM. Bella has no known bedtime at your home and an extremely popular awards show was on at the time. Are you really expecting me/us to believe that the teenager is asleep?!?!?!